Devotees: Are people, both men and women, who are sexually attracted to disability. They are sexually turned on by a persons amputation, paralysis, muscle weakness, muscle spasms, limb difference, etc. If you have a disability then they are going to love you, whether you are looking for that love or not.
Microaggressions: When people's biases against marginalized groups present in a way that leaves you feeling uncomfortable or insulted.
Fetishization: A sexual fascination with things not inherently sexual. Fetishization of people because of race, gender, or sexuality can be harmful or dehumanizing.
We understand that everyone has their own way of dealing with these things.
Maybe you prefer to shut down a conversation immediately, or maybe you prefer to call someone out to explain why their behavior was harmful.
It’s important to know that either way is ok and there is no right or wrong.
If somebody behaves on the app in a way you’re not ok with and you’d like us to take care of it for you, use the report/block button or contact us at: firstname.lastname@example.org.
Otherwise, if you feel safe and decide to talk to your match yourself, these tips may help: